'Mothering the mother'
Two Key Pen doulas help through baby delivery
By Paula Moore KP News
Key Peninsula has two doulas — professional birth
assistants — working in partnership at the Harbor Doula
Group. They are Michele Hill and Karen Ramirez.
Hill, mother of three, was already interested in
becoming a doula when she moved down the street from
Ramirez.
“I was fascinated during the birth of my best friend’s
baby, and it felt natural for me to nurture her even
though I had not had any formal training,” Hill said.
As the two young mothers became friends, Hill shared
her excitement about becoming a doula with Ramirez. Soon
Ramirez, also a mother of three children, found she wanted
to join in.
“I have always been fascinated by pregnancy and the
birth process. Being able to comfort and empower a woman’s
journey is very rewarding,” Ramirez said.
Their journey has taken them to Bates Technical
College, where they received their training. PALS (Pacific
Association of Labor Services) certified Hill. Ramirez has
applied for her certification through DONA, Doulas of
North America, and hopes to get it soon. To complete
certification, the doula must have extensive study and
attend three births with documentation of these births.
She must also have good references from the parents,
doctors, midwives, and nurses who were present at the
births she assisted.
The word doula comes from ancient Greece. It means
“women’s servant.” Today the word refers to a professional
birth assistant. A doula provides informational, physical
and emotional support to mothers and their partner before,
during, and after birth.
Because doulas understand the range of medical
procedures presented to pregnant women and those in labor,
they can offer information to the couple to help them make
better choices.
A doula doesn’t take the place of the doctor, midwife,
or nurse, but is part of the prenatal team. The mother,
not the hospital or the insurance company, employs her.
The doula does all the nurturing tasks. She brings
quiet harp music, aromatherapy, massage oil, microwavable
rice packs for labor pains, high protein snacks, bottled
water, lip balm and mouth wash. By making the woman
comfortable and relaxed, each birth becomes personal and
special.
Beyond making the mother at ease and giving more
maternal satisfaction with the childbirth experience,
there are physical benefits to having a doula, the two
women said: shorter labor, fewer complications, and
reduction in the need of pain medications and epidurals.
Besides attending at births, they offer private home
childbirth classes, as well as classes taught in public
health centers. They also have postpartum services, which
include teaching mothers to care for their infants, light
cooking or cleaning, and help with household needs. Harbor
Doula services include 24- hour, on-call help, along with
assistance choosing a birth plan.
Confidentiality is very important, and records are
treated as any medical staff would. Hill expressed both
women’s thoughts, by saying, “A doula magnifies the
miracle of birth by mothering the mother.”
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